The Texas State Democratic Party bowed to fear this past week when the Executive Committee met to vote on proposed primary ballot referendum. In a move that silenced one of the most staunch populaces aligned with the Democratic Party, the LGBTQ community, Texas Democrats voted 33-22 to exclude a marriage equality referendum on the 2012 Democratic Primary ballot. However, legalizing gambling will be on the ballot.
According to a press release received from Dan Graney, President of the Texas Stonewall Democrats, arguments against including the marriage equality measure were:
- The Republicans will go after us on this.
- This will negatively impact on our Democratic candidates.
- What if the measure should fail?
As to the first argument, the Republicans are going after the Democrats anyway. All that was accomplished by excluding even a chance for marriage equality in Texas was that Democrats were silenced and we will now see Democrats going after Democrats in Texas for their blatant disregard for their own party platform, which states:
Democrats believe that we all have a part to play in promoting equality and protecting Americans against discrimination, and we continue to work vigorously toward greater freedom and equality in America.
Working vigorously toward greater freedom apparently means bowing to political pressure, fear and intimidation, as is noted by the second opposition view that supporting freedom and equality will negatively affect Democratic candidates. In this instance, the lack of integrity and moxy will do more to negatively impact candidates than standing up for your party values EVER would have.
Perhaps the most disturbing argument presented in keeping marriage equality off of the primary ballot is the argument, “What if the measure should fail?” For that, I turn to other thinkers and provide the following motivational quotes:
“The men who try to do something and fail are infinitely better than those who try nothing and succeed” – Lloyd Jones
“Every accomplishment starts with the decision to try.” – Unknown
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” – Mary Anne Radmacher
“Try and fail, but don’t fail to try.” Stephen Kaqqwa
“Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all.” – Dale Carnegie
“The worst thing one can do is not to try, to be aware of what one wants and not give in to it, to spend years in silent hurt wondering if something could have materialized – and never knowing” – David Vicsott
“I am not judged by the number of times I fail, but by the number of times I succeed: and the number of times I succeed is in direct proportion to the number of times I fail and keep trying.” – Tom Hopkins
“You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don’t try.” – Beverly Sills
“There is no comparison between that which is lost by not succeeding and that lost by not trying.” – Francis Bacon, Sr.
Try as I might, I was unable to find any motivational quotes encouraging people not to try. However, I was able to find a quote by an unknown person that sums up my feelings toward the Texas Democratic Party:
Fuck you for giving up on me.