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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: The Quota System for the Right to Marry</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 15:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Like many others, I have been following reports from the courtroom of Judge Walker. I've really appreciated the highly detailed reporting at Empty Wheel from Fire Dog Lake.

I could not help but be both bewildered and intrigued by the line of questioning regarding the percentage of straight relationships and gay relationships that are stable, the percentage of couples that want to be monogamous and how long these relationships last. Even more odd, the defense attorney wanted to compare relationships in domestic partnerships compared to marriage. So, the anti-gay marriage crowd wants proof that gay people want to be married, will stay married and will stay monogamous. That's going to be tricky IF YOU DON'T LET THEM GET MARRIED.


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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: Discrimination Ends at Home</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2009 17:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I have questions that don’t have answers. Sometimes I have questions that I figure if I write about them, it will bring on a barrage of angry comments. Then, I discover I still have the question. Today's question is about prejudice. Is it better when people are overt about their prejudice, or is it better when they hide their prejudice? For me, the answer has become more complex. I have always believed that I would rather have someone be honest, even if it's ugly, because then I know where they stand. I found myself debating the value of silencing ugly speech, and I surprised myself.

Prejudice, bigotry, stereotyping; One of my favorites is “It’s reaching the point where a person can’t say anything about homosexuals without being called names.”


Related posts:<ol><li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/10/lgbt-heroes-project-laura-gentle-and-the-atlanta-eagle-raid/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: LGBT Heroes Project: Laura Gentle and the Atlanta Eagle Raid'>LGBT Heroes Project: Laura Gentle and the Atlanta Eagle Raid</a></li>
<li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/09/maine-no-on-1-campaign-you-can-help-from-home-no-credit-card-required/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Maine No On 1 Campaign: You Can Help From Home &#8211; No Credit Card Required'>Maine No On 1 Campaign: You Can Help From Home &#8211; No Credit Card Required</a></li>
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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: The Homosexual Threat to Marriage</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Nov 2009 23:02:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I  enjoy when the opposition hands me material on a silver platter. Thanks to the Manhattan Declaration, we have confirmation of the real reasons why right wing fundamentalists and conservatives oppose same sex marriage. As of today, over 180,000 people have signed this Declaration. One voice, making the same statement. At last, our enemy has defined themselves.

One of the main founders of the Manhattan Declaration, Chuck Colson, was part of the Watergate scandal and went to jail for obstructing justice. 


Related posts:<ol><li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/10/louisiana-judge-refuses-to-preside-over-interracial-marriage/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Louisiana Judge Refuses to Preside Over Interracial Marriage'>Louisiana Judge Refuses to Preside Over Interracial Marriage</a></li>
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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: Without Love, You Have Nothing</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:37:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As we approach this holiday season, I can’t recall a year, in my adult life time, where religion has been used so much as a tool for discrimination and lies.

The Bible can be used to support or dismiss almost any point of view.  Lately, its main purpose seems to be a tool to deny LGBT people not only rights, but also to degrade and dehumanize them.  The Bible is a collection of writings, mostly found through archaeological means, written in ancient languages such as Hebrew, Greek and Aramaic, over centuries. It has undergone translation and censorship. It has been studied by many people intensely for years at academic institutions.  Common sense tells me that God did not put pen to paper. People put pen to paper to write about their spiritual experiences and beliefs. It was written within the cultural context of the times.


Related posts:<ol><li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2010/01/for-the-new-year-love-takes-over-win-will-and-grace-season-3-on-dvd/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: For the New Year &#8211; Love Takes Over.'>For the New Year &#8211; Love Takes Over.</a></li>
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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: Give the Gift of Equality</title>
		<link>http://jaysays.com/2009/11/lgbt-lessons-for-straight-people-give-the-gift-of-equality/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2009 03:50:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Eeeks. The holiday shopping season is upon us. Many of you probably participate in the holidays one way or another, regardless of your faith. One thing you can do this year is give the gift of Equality for LGBT people. Is it difficult to talk to your friends and family about supporting rights for gays and lesbians? Don't we all have an Archie Bunker in our family?


Related posts:<ol><li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/10/photos-from-the-national-equality-march/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Photos from the National Equality March'>Photos from the National Equality March</a></li>
<li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/09/national-equality-march-song-competition-finalists-vote-now/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: National Equality March Song Competition Finalists: Vote Now!'>National Equality March Song Competition Finalists: Vote Now!</a></li>
<li><a href='http://jaysays.com/2009/10/lgbt-hero-frank-voci-white-knot-marches-for-equality-from-whiteknot/' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: LGBT HERO | Frank Voci: White Knot Marches for Equality'>LGBT HERO | Frank Voci: White Knot Marches for Equality</a></li>
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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Right Wing Christians: How Hate Crime Laws Silenced the Church</title>
		<link>http://jaysays.com/2009/11/lgbt-lessons-for-right-wing-christians-how-hate-crime-laws-silenced-the-church/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 21:26:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The hardcore religious (they are anything but) right has become so paranoid that their twisted logic has led them to believe that they are the victims. Their solution?  The Manhattan Declaration, a statement of Christian convictions on the matters of life, family, and religious liberty. Let's go through parts of it.

"The preamble to the declaration reads, “While the whole scope of Christian moral concern, including a special concern for the poor and vulnerable, claims our attention, we are especially troubled that in our nation today the lives of the unborn, the disabled, and the elderly are severely threatened..."


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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: I Hate Gays But I&#8217;d Die for their Civil Rights.</title>
		<link>http://jaysays.com/2009/11/lgbt-lessons-for-straight-people-i-hate-gays-and-id-die-for-their-civil-rights/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Nov 2009 02:16:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like to read comments from readers on news articles. I’ve read so many that it is rare that I find one with a new point. I admit it. The general public is a broken record when it comes to their point of view.

So I was surprised to find this comment. What intrigued me the most is that this person takes complete ownership of his feelings. He doesn’t invoke religion, tradition or biology. He does invoke incorrect psychology, and then he turns 180 in a surprising way.


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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: Don&#8217;t Come Here if You Have HIV</title>
		<link>http://jaysays.com/2009/11/lgbt-lessons-for-straight-people-dont-come-here-if-you-have-hiv/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Nov 2009 19:40:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Take a moment to imagine this: You are a U.S. citizen, a hardworking productive citizen whose job requires travel to foreign countries. You are HIV positive. It doesn’t matter how you contracted HIV. Your gender, race, age and socio-economic class don’t matter. You are HIV positive. You take your medications, you know how the illness is transmitted. You are healthy otherwise. You don’t have tuberculosis or any other casually transmitted disease.


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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: The Endangered White Male Species</title>
		<link>http://jaysays.com/2009/10/lgbt-lessons-for-straight-people-the-endangered-white-male-species/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:03:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you are like me, you can always think of a great comeback to an offensive comment. One day later.

This last week was a whirlwind for me. One week past the National Equality March and I’m still processing everything that I experienced and felt. I felt so prepared to take on the world with such powerful words given to me by the speakers, with such energy and friendliness from everyone that I met.


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		<title>LGBT Lessons for Straight People: Coming Out Day is For Everyone</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 23:26:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>geekgirl</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[October 11th is Coming Out Day. I can’t help but wonder what it is that prompts a gay person to come out. Especially in a place like a workplace, where your very livelihood is at stake. As a straight person, I can only imagine and I would never have the audacity to say this is something I know or feel. In last week’s Closet Talk interview with Jen Dugan, of the 1st Annual Nationwide You Are Loved Chalk Messages Project, Jen told her own coming out story and how surprised she was at the support. Many individuals told her that had they known, they would have supported her. She used the words “It goes unsaid.”


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