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Stupid Things People Say About Gays: The Prop 8 Trial Series, Part 3

January 13, 2010 By: jaysays Category: Featured, Stupid Things People Say About Gays

San Francisco Deputy City Attorney Therese Stewart took the stage in the Proposition 8 trial this afternoon with a redirect examination of Yale Professor Chauncey.  During the examination, Ms. Stewart asked Professor Chauncey to read from a Vatican statement regarding same-sex marriage.  These are the words of the Vatican:

Allowing children being adopted by gay couples would do violence to these children.  Their condition of dependency would stunt their full human development.

According to the Child Welfare Information Gateway, between 8 million and 10 million children are currently being raised in gay and lesbian families.  Some studies indicate that an estimated two million GLB people are interested in adopting children.  If all of those interested were able to adopt children and did so, homes would be had for TWO MILLION homeless or orphaned children.  That’s a lot of kids.

Further, an estimated 4% of all adopted children in the United States are adopted by gay or lesbian parents.  Considering numerous states in the U.S. have laws against such adoption, imagine the flood of homes that could be provided should all states recognize same-sex marriage and cease discriminating against same-sex couples during adoptions.  The social benefit would be overwhelming.

Of course, the issue raised by the Vatican is that the 8 – 10 million children that are being raised by gay or lesbian parents have been stunted from reaching their full human development.  This argument has the same ugly ring to it as the argument recently made by a Louisiana Justice of the Peace who refused to perform a marriage ceremony for an interracial couple because he is concerned for the welfare of their offspring since interracial children are not accepted by society.  Apparently, this Justice of the Peace is wholly unaware of the United States President’s ethnicity.

Of course, we all know that Ally Sheedy turned out terribly.  The actress didn’t live up to her potential at all thanks to her lesbian mother, Charlote.  In fact, her youth was so wasted, that she didn’t start performing until the age of 15!!!  Had her mother been a heterosexual, perhaps things would have been better for Ally and she would have started performing at a very young age, as did Jon-Benet Ramsey, the child of heterosexual parents.

We also know from history that King Charles I of England didn’t live up to his potential either.  After all, he was only King of England, not like he became “Pope” or something more wholesome.  Perhaps had his father and grandfather not been “queer” he would have gone on to be Emperor of the World instead of just “King of England.”

And lets not forget Curtis Jackson.  We all know that he was completely stiffled from growing up and living a productive life.  I for one am not going to tell him that he hasn’t fully developed as a human, though.  Of course, the Vatican may not be familiar with the name Curtis Jackson – perhaps we should tell them his more commonly known name, 50 Cent (or as I like to call him, silver change).  What would have become of 50 Cent if he had heterosexual parents?  Perhaps he would have become a country-western singer instead, eh?

There is some truth to what the Vatican argues – history does show us that the children of gay and lesbian people often suffer a terrible fate.

For example, Alexander Aegus, the son of Alexander the Great, was murdered by Cassader… by the Vatican’s standard, this was because of his homo-dad, not a struggle for power.

There’s also the late, great Dorothy Dandridge, whose life was so tragically cut short by an accidental overdose of Imipramine at only 42 years old.  This is obviously a result of her mother having been a lesbian.

The point here isn’t that children of LGBT people are better than children of straight people.  The point is that the children, like all children, develop independently of their parent’s sexual orientation, some for better, some for worse.  There is no correlation between greatness and parental sexual orientation.

NOTE: For more of the column, Stupid Things People Say About Gays, click here.

LGBT Notable News Happenings – (August 26, 2009 – September 2, 2009)

September 06, 2009 By: MJ Category: Featured, LGBT News

LGBT NewsFL Gay Adoption Ban Goes to State Appeals Court (August 26, 2009)

November 2008 a Miami-Dade County judge ruled that the Gay Adoption Ban is unconstitutional.  The ruling made in the case of Martin Gill and his partner who had adopted two young boys.  State attorneys have taken the case to the court of appeals and the ACLU is representing Mr. Gill.

Men to be Tried for Murder of Lesbian in South Africa (August 26, 2009)

Last year a group of men assaulted and then stabbed to death Eudy Simelane (29 yrs) who played on national sport teams.  Gay Rights activists are using this case to show that women continue to be raped in an attempt to change their sexual orientation.  Lesbians who attended the hearing were threatened by young men and the three men accused have pleaded not guilty.

Proposal in MI to Add Sexual Orientation to Anti-Discrimination Law (August 26, 2009)

The House Judiciary Committee heard testimony recently on whether to add Sexual Orientation to their existing Anti-Discrimination laws.  This legislation would extend housing and employment protections to the LGBT community.  Recently Steven Harmon (15 yrs old) of Portage was beaten for being gay and his case seems to have added more impetus to the fight for the legislation.

Men Convicted For Assault on Gay Man in Texas (August 27, 2009)

Jimmy Dean was walking home during the summer of 2008 when he was brutally beaten by Bobby Singleton and Dean Gunter.  Mr. Gunter has already been convicted and sentenced to 30 years in prison.  Officers classified the assault and robbery as a hate crime and Mr. Singleton – who more seriously assaulted Jimmy Dean – has now been sentenced to 75 years in prison.

Death of Sen Kennedy in MA is Loss for LGBT Community (August 27, 2009)

Many will miss Sen Edward Kennedy including his family, friends and the LGBT Community.  He was a strong supporter of HIV/AIDS funding, LGBT Hate Crimes legislation and Same-Sex Marriage.  In 1996 he was one of only 14 senators who voted against D.O.M.A.  Bye to Ted.

Camp in Canada for LGBTQ Youth Offers Comfort & Variety (August 27, 2009)

In Manitoba there is a one of a kind camp for LGBTQ  youth (ages 14 to 21) to have fun and just be themselves.  Those who are not yet out are also welcome to join in the activities and supportive atmosphere.  The camp has most activities available at other camps – but for those bored with the regular camp activities – there is an introduction to drag.

Female Transgender Inmate Sexually Assaulted in Hawaii (August 27, 2009)

She is a 31 year old Transgender female who has not yet had gender reassignment surgery – but she was held in a prison module for men.  While working on the breakfast cleanup crew a male adult corrections officer forced her to perform a sexual act.  An investigation has been launched and she will be released after having  served eight years of her 10 year sentence.

Uruguay House Passes Same-Sex Adoption Bill (August 27, 2009)

The Chamber passed the bill and it is now on it’s way to the Senate which approved a previous version to the bill.  They must now vote on the most recent modifications which would allow Uruguay to be the first country in Latin America to allow adoption by Same-Sex couples.

Transgender Women Stabbed in D.C.-One Dies (August 27, 2009)

Nana Boo and her friend were walking on the sidewalk when a man approached and stabbed them both.  Nana Boo’s wounds were caused her to die and her friend was severely wounded but lived.  The police said they are investigating the incident as a possible hate crime.

Action Taken as Result of Rainbow Lounge Raid in Texas (August 28, 2009)

The Texas Alcohol Beverage Commission has fired two agents as a result of the raid.  Their direct supervisor Sgt. Terry Parsons  is also being fired effective September 2, 2009. Sgt. Parsons’ direct supervisor Lt. Gene Anderson will be suspended three days then on probation for six months, and Capt. Robert Cloud has received a written reprimand.

Lawsuit Filed by Gay Man – Victim of Harassment in PA – Reinstated by Fed Judge (August 29, 2009)

Brian Prowell of Penn Hills had filed a lawsuit against his employer after he was harassed by co-workers then laid off by his employer.  A federal judge then dismissed the suit claiming it was based on Sexual Orientation not covered under federal law.  A federal appeals judge reinstated the lawsuit stating the decision should be left up to a jury.

LGBT Group Requests Temporary Block of Referendum 71 (September 1, 2009)

The LGBT group Washington Families Standing Together are still working to keep Referendum 71 off the November ballot – and to allow the new law broadening recognition of Domestic Partner benefits to take effect.  The secretary of state’s office claims there are enough signatures to put the Referendum on the ballot, but supporters of the new law claim many signatures are not valid.

Vermont First Same-Sex Marriages Begin One Minute After Legal (Sept 2, 2009)

The new law was only one minute old when Bill Slimback and Bob Sullivan became one of the first couples to say their vows and become legally married.  They travelled from N.Y. and had a midnight wedding at a rustic lodge where the co-owner is also a Justice of the Peace.  Now five states allow Same-Sex Marriage.

School District Decides in Favor of Student in Minnesota (September 2, 2009)

Earlier this year two teachers repeatedly mocked a student who they believed was Gay.  The student Alex Merritt (18 yrs) said he was heterosexual but because the teachers persisted he eventually had to transfer to another high school.  The school district has recently made decisions and the two teachers are now on a leave of absence – and substitute teachers will immediately take over their classes.

Ex-Roommate of Murdered Transgender Woman Arrested for Sexual Assault in Colorado (Sept 2, 2009)

Angie Zapata was roommates with J.J. Alejandro for three months before she was murdered.  J.J. Alejandro is now in jail facing charges for sexually assaulting five teenage girls.  Authorities had difficulty finding Mr. Alejandro during the murder trial for Angie Zapata – but he did show up just in time to testify for the defense.

mjpngwnz: MJ, a/k/a pngwnz, is summarizing LGBT current events each week for jaysays.com and the Why Would You Say That – Really? series. She is an out lesbian with an affinity for the music of Phil Collins and Carole King.

Stupid Things People Say About Gays: Children of Gays Trying to Fill Void Left by Parents

February 05, 2009 By: jaysays Category: Stupid Things People Say About Gays

I’ve been following this article on topix, and noted that the comments started referring to yours truly (uhm, that’s me). So I started watching the comments and ultimately found inspiration for this “Stupid Things People Say About Gays.” It also provided me with the unique opportunity to respond directly to causation.  The comment thread read, in part (and I keep it in its original in spite of the grammar issues):

Curious Questioner: Do you all really believe it is fair to a child to have gays get artificially pregnant and have a child to raise? What kind of life is that kid going to have? I draw the line with children.

Too many retards: Ask a adult child raised by gay parents

Curious Questioner: Well, I’ve only ever met one. The kid was a mess. These idiots are not thinking about the life of the child when the try this. They are thinking only of themselves and still trying to fill some void they’ve never been able to with a relationship that isn’t dysfunctional.

I felt obligated to respond as I’m generally overly optimistic:

Have you stopped to consider why the child is “a mess” as the person you know? Perhaps it’s because he is taught by people like you that his parents are horrible people and will damage him. Perhaps its because he sees homosexuals being bullied, outlawed, beaten, raped and sometimes murdered and wakes up in the morning and wonders, “Will my mommies be next?”